Our children lack a sense of history and belonging—of an anchored presence in the world. “Much of the borderline’s dramatic behavior is related to his interminable search for something to fill the emptiness that continually haunts him. Although” .
That’s what I wanted—to be alone with myself in another world where truth is untrue and life can hide from itself. It may be directed at previously valued people. ― Jerold J. Kreisman, quote from I Hate You, Don't Leave Me: Understanding the Borderline Personality ― Jerold J. Kreisman, quote from I Hate You, Don't Leave Me: Understanding the Borderline Personality
― Jerold J. Kreisman, quote from I Hate You, Don't Leave Me: Understanding the Borderline Personality The emphasis here is on the borderline’s painful experience, not the speaker’s.
“Borderline individuals are the psychological equivalent of third-degree burn patients. We are all indebted to Dr. Kreisman for his pioneering Welcome back. And the partner fulfills his own desire to feel strong, protective, important, and needed—to be the one to “take her away from all this.” CASE” . “The SET-UP system evolved as a structured framework of communication with the borderline in crisis. We’d love your help. Fear of abandonment or loneliness is a common trigger for people with a borderline personality disorder. The threat of violence frequently accompanies this anger. Whether you're a student of psychology, a practicing therapist, a borderline struggling to stop the pain, or a family member or relationship partner of a borderline, you will find "I Hate You, Don't Leave Me," an informative, helpful resource in stopping the pain of this terrible disorder. The search often leads to partners with complementary pathology: both lack insight into their mutual destructiveness. “circumstances, the borderline bases his attitude toward another person on the most recent encounter, rather than on a more stable and enduring perception grounded in a consistent, connected series of experiences.” In” She felt “the curtains raising.” She compared the feeling to looking for a valuable antique in a dark attic filled with junk—she knew that it was in there somewhere but couldn’t see it because of all the clutter. ), may be resulting ironically in more self-absorption and less physical interaction; texting, blogging, posting, and tweeting all avoid eye contact. The borderline must keep testing and retesting all of these aspects of his life; he is in constant fear that a trusted person or situation will change into the total opposite—absolute betrayal.
224 pages. ― Jerold J. Kreisman, quote from I Hate You, Don't Leave Me: Understanding the Borderline Personality ― Jerold J. Kreisman, quote from I Hate You, Don't Leave Me: Understanding the Borderline Personality CASE” ― Jerold J. Kreisman, quote from I Hate You, Don't Leave Me: Understanding the Borderline Personality Just because the sun has risen in the East for thousands of years does not mean it will happen today.
Even the slightest touch or movement can create immense suffering.”1”
To establish a sense of control and comforting familiarity in an alienating society, the individual may resort to a wide range of pathological behavior—substance addiction, eating disorders, criminal behaviors, and so on.”
― Jerold J. Kreisman, quote from I Hate You, Don't Leave Me: Understanding the Borderline Personality “Also, Empathy should be expressed in a neutral way with minimal personal reference to the speaker’s own feelings. ― Jerold J. Kreisman, quote from I Hate You, Don't Leave Me: Understanding the Borderline Personality ― Jerold J. Kreisman, quote from I Hate You, Don't Leave Me: Understanding the Borderline Personality .
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